"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
whats the best place to meet girls?
- Thread starter uturn
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DanishDJ
Don Juan
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
I can choose exactly what hair color, eye color, personality, etc just by going into yahoo chat rooms.
Also, having female friends hook you up with their friends is an excellent way to meet chicks.
Cheers!
Eric
www.tenderz.net/forum
disciple
Senior Don Juan
Some guys do good on the internet, for some the street or mall, for some bookstores or classes, etc.
Just get out there and try out different things and see where you feel most comfortable and have the best success rate and then work it.
Just keep in mind that some places have higher percentage pickup rates than others.
For example, a cold approach on the street is about a 10% shot.
Kicking it to a girl you see everyday at school would be a 30% shot.
Hollering at a girl you were introduced to by a friend at a get together or party would be about a 70% shot.
Do you see a pattern here?
The less of a stranger you are to a chick the higher the probability of her lowering her defenses so you can work your game.
So keep this in mind when you are selecting places to meet chicks.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
Be friendly...even to the UGs...it's a good hook up strategy...Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Also, having female friends hook you up with their friends is an excellent way to meet chicks.