"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
whats the best place to meet girls?
- Thread starter uturn
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DanishDJ
Don Juan
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
I can choose exactly what hair color, eye color, personality, etc just by going into yahoo chat rooms.
Also, having female friends hook you up with their friends is an excellent way to meet chicks.
Cheers!
Eric
www.tenderz.net/forum
disciple
Senior Don Juan
Some guys do good on the internet, for some the street or mall, for some bookstores or classes, etc.
Just get out there and try out different things and see where you feel most comfortable and have the best success rate and then work it.
Just keep in mind that some places have higher percentage pickup rates than others.
For example, a cold approach on the street is about a 10% shot.
Kicking it to a girl you see everyday at school would be a 30% shot.
Hollering at a girl you were introduced to by a friend at a get together or party would be about a 70% shot.
Do you see a pattern here?
The less of a stranger you are to a chick the higher the probability of her lowering her defenses so you can work your game.
So keep this in mind when you are selecting places to meet chicks.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
Be friendly...even to the UGs...it's a good hook up strategy...Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Also, having female friends hook you up with their friends is an excellent way to meet chicks.