I'm so bored right now and I don't know what to do. I don't have many friends which sucks. I feel pretty insecure going out in public by myself because I feel like everyone is watching me because I'm all by my lonesome. I can only play so many videogames or watc so much TV. Anyone have any suggestions.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Whats a guy do to on a Saturday night??
- Thread starter bud_2005
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Get rid of your insecurity
Go and join a class or something
Do something you love or want to learn
Go and join a class or something
Do something you love or want to learn
Poonani Maker
Master Don Juan
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When I go it alone, I always behave as a "gentleman." Think of hunting with hunting dogs, relaxed, calm, cool, collected. Just sip your beer man.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
Watch UFC 90.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DogFashionDisco
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Jerk off.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Not to be a ****, but you've been on this site for over 6 years! What have you been doing with yourself?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
No, you're not a lost cause. You're just lazy. I don't want you to give up, I'd much rather you take the advice and put it into use in your daily life. There is so much potential in your life to become great with all the tools available. It's sooo worth it.bud_2005 said: