I'm so bored right now and I don't know what to do. I don't have many friends which sucks. I feel pretty insecure going out in public by myself because I feel like everyone is watching me because I'm all by my lonesome. I can only play so many videogames or watc so much TV. Anyone have any suggestions.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Whats a guy do to on a Saturday night??
- Thread starter bud_2005
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Get rid of your insecurity
Go and join a class or something
Do something you love or want to learn
Go and join a class or something
Do something you love or want to learn
Poonani Maker
Master Don Juan
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When I go it alone, I always behave as a "gentleman." Think of hunting with hunting dogs, relaxed, calm, cool, collected. Just sip your beer man.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
Watch UFC 90.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
DogFashionDisco
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Jerk off.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Not to be a ****, but you've been on this site for over 6 years! What have you been doing with yourself?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
No, you're not a lost cause. You're just lazy. I don't want you to give up, I'd much rather you take the advice and put it into use in your daily life. There is so much potential in your life to become great with all the tools available. It's sooo worth it.bud_2005 said: