I'm so bored right now and I don't know what to do. I don't have many friends which sucks. I feel pretty insecure going out in public by myself because I feel like everyone is watching me because I'm all by my lonesome. I can only play so many videogames or watc so much TV. Anyone have any suggestions.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Whats a guy do to on a Saturday night??
- Thread starter bud_2005
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Get rid of your insecurity
Go and join a class or something
Do something you love or want to learn
Go and join a class or something
Do something you love or want to learn
Poonani Maker
Master Don Juan
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When I go it alone, I always behave as a "gentleman." Think of hunting with hunting dogs, relaxed, calm, cool, collected. Just sip your beer man.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
Watch UFC 90.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DogFashionDisco
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Jerk off.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Not to be a ****, but you've been on this site for over 6 years! What have you been doing with yourself?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
No, you're not a lost cause. You're just lazy. I don't want you to give up, I'd much rather you take the advice and put it into use in your daily life. There is so much potential in your life to become great with all the tools available. It's sooo worth it.bud_2005 said: