Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Well, intially, yes, because she'll lose your non-sexual attention. That is what most ladies crave. She'll get over it pretty fast as if she's half way attractive, she'll already have other orbiters in place. If you are unable to resist the temptation in contacting her, you should delete the way she messages you. I am sure it will be a challenge for you; like it or not, you've developed feelings for her.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Well the twist is she has abandonment issues so this will be a roller coaster like you've never seen. I wont deny I caught feelings for her though.
This
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Damn if that’s the case I should thank her haha
Yes!
Don't know if anyone comment on this already but anyway:
Yeah that was a mistake on my part but she’d laid the trap before I could stop myself. She set me up with mentioning several times “I really like where this is going, you make me feel comfortable around you and no guy has ever made me feel that way before.” She basically was hypnotizing me into thinking if I tried for anything more than long passionate kissing and feeling her up that I’d be history. I said f it one night and started kissing her neck because I know that’s most women’s week spot and if that won’t get you sex nothing will. She pulled away. I was like “yep this is going nowhere.”
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Rolls my eyes up. She perfectly conditioning you.
Well I eventually did walk away, just a second too late. I got comfortable and let my guard down, I know exactly what I did. And I don’t know why I did it with her because I’ve been fine with girls that had better game and were hotter. Sometimes you just have a bad day at the office and can’t throw your fastball for ****.