"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what would u do if ur seen as the guy who just runs thru women

_sideways_

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Like for real.. .its annoying now how that's my rep....also im super fun, but "quality" girls will pass on me cuz im fun and heartless...

Yea i know. Big deal, thats why im dating young chicks but i have a heart...like, it sucks being called player or heartless and they mean it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have that issue in a few social circles because I've banged multiple chicks in said social circles. But I've never lied. Never promised a relationship or any commitment on my part. So Im not really shamed.

I'll say this.. F#ck em good(guilty) and they will tell all their friends and the horny ones will want to experiment with you. F#ck em bad(guilty, whiskey d#ck) you wont bang anyone else in that group.
So it can be spinned to your advantage.

I've only had one chick pass on me because of my reputation. Didn't bother me much, because I only had plans to hit her and quit her.
What's the beef though OP, are you looking for a relationship now or something?
 

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_sideways_ said:
Like for real.. .its annoying now how that's my rep....also im super fun, but "quality" girls will pass on me cuz im fun and heartless...

Yea i know. Big deal, thats why im dating young chicks but i have a heart...like, it sucks being called player or heartless and they mean it.

Can't you just date OUTSIDE your social circle?

Surely there must be one or two women ON THE PLANET who've never heard of you or your reputation.
 

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_sideways_ said:
Like for real.. .its annoying now how that's my rep....also im super fun, but "quality" girls will pass on me cuz im fun and heartless...

Yea i know. Big deal, thats why im dating young chicks but i have a heart...like, it sucks being called player or heartless and they mean it.

Part of you is still glad you have the player reputation. You can settle down with a girl whenever you want to (if that's really what you want) but part of you still wants to pump and dump.
 
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On average with yall how long do u end up sleeping with girls till they are forcing u to commit or they walk? And how do u keep it a friends with benefits? Obvioisly saying that to a girl turns her off so WTF!?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Its not that im looking to marry anyone but when i try to porttay the innocent act someone spills the beans that im hard to tie down, got the wandering eye, etc.

And i do want to bang the super shy innocent ones...as well as the sloots.
 
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