“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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what would u do if ur seen as the guy who just runs thru women

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Like for real.. .its annoying now how that's my rep....also im super fun, but "quality" girls will pass on me cuz im fun and heartless...

Yea i know. Big deal, thats why im dating young chicks but i have a heart...like, it sucks being called player or heartless and they mean it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I have that issue in a few social circles because I've banged multiple chicks in said social circles. But I've never lied. Never promised a relationship or any commitment on my part. So Im not really shamed.

I'll say this.. F#ck em good(guilty) and they will tell all their friends and the horny ones will want to experiment with you. F#ck em bad(guilty, whiskey d#ck) you wont bang anyone else in that group.
So it can be spinned to your advantage.

I've only had one chick pass on me because of my reputation. Didn't bother me much, because I only had plans to hit her and quit her.
What's the beef though OP, are you looking for a relationship now or something?
 

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_sideways_ said:
Like for real.. .its annoying now how that's my rep....also im super fun, but "quality" girls will pass on me cuz im fun and heartless...

Yea i know. Big deal, thats why im dating young chicks but i have a heart...like, it sucks being called player or heartless and they mean it.

Can't you just date OUTSIDE your social circle?

Surely there must be one or two women ON THE PLANET who've never heard of you or your reputation.
 

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_sideways_ said:
Like for real.. .its annoying now how that's my rep....also im super fun, but "quality" girls will pass on me cuz im fun and heartless...

Yea i know. Big deal, thats why im dating young chicks but i have a heart...like, it sucks being called player or heartless and they mean it.

Part of you is still glad you have the player reputation. You can settle down with a girl whenever you want to (if that's really what you want) but part of you still wants to pump and dump.
 
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On average with yall how long do u end up sleeping with girls till they are forcing u to commit or they walk? And how do u keep it a friends with benefits? Obvioisly saying that to a girl turns her off so WTF!?
 

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Its not that im looking to marry anyone but when i try to porttay the innocent act someone spills the beans that im hard to tie down, got the wandering eye, etc.

And i do want to bang the super shy innocent ones...as well as the sloots.
 
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