"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what would u do if ur seen as the guy who just runs thru women

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Like for real.. .its annoying now how that's my rep....also im super fun, but "quality" girls will pass on me cuz im fun and heartless...

Yea i know. Big deal, thats why im dating young chicks but i have a heart...like, it sucks being called player or heartless and they mean it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have that issue in a few social circles because I've banged multiple chicks in said social circles. But I've never lied. Never promised a relationship or any commitment on my part. So Im not really shamed.

I'll say this.. F#ck em good(guilty) and they will tell all their friends and the horny ones will want to experiment with you. F#ck em bad(guilty, whiskey d#ck) you wont bang anyone else in that group.
So it can be spinned to your advantage.

I've only had one chick pass on me because of my reputation. Didn't bother me much, because I only had plans to hit her and quit her.
What's the beef though OP, are you looking for a relationship now or something?
 
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_sideways_ said:
Like for real.. .its annoying now how that's my rep....also im super fun, but "quality" girls will pass on me cuz im fun and heartless...

Yea i know. Big deal, thats why im dating young chicks but i have a heart...like, it sucks being called player or heartless and they mean it.
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Can't you just date OUTSIDE your social circle?

Surely there must be one or two women ON THE PLANET who've never heard of you or your reputation.
 
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_sideways_ said:
Like for real.. .its annoying now how that's my rep....also im super fun, but "quality" girls will pass on me cuz im fun and heartless...

Yea i know. Big deal, thats why im dating young chicks but i have a heart...like, it sucks being called player or heartless and they mean it.
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Part of you is still glad you have the player reputation. You can settle down with a girl whenever you want to (if that's really what you want) but part of you still wants to pump and dump.
 
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On average with yall how long do u end up sleeping with girls till they are forcing u to commit or they walk? And how do u keep it a friends with benefits? Obvioisly saying that to a girl turns her off so WTF!?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Its not that im looking to marry anyone but when i try to porttay the innocent act someone spills the beans that im hard to tie down, got the wandering eye, etc.

And i do want to bang the super shy innocent ones...as well as the sloots.
 
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