"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what would u do if ur seen as the guy who just runs thru women

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Like for real.. .its annoying now how that's my rep....also im super fun, but "quality" girls will pass on me cuz im fun and heartless...

Yea i know. Big deal, thats why im dating young chicks but i have a heart...like, it sucks being called player or heartless and they mean it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have that issue in a few social circles because I've banged multiple chicks in said social circles. But I've never lied. Never promised a relationship or any commitment on my part. So Im not really shamed.

I'll say this.. F#ck em good(guilty) and they will tell all their friends and the horny ones will want to experiment with you. F#ck em bad(guilty, whiskey d#ck) you wont bang anyone else in that group.
So it can be spinned to your advantage.

I've only had one chick pass on me because of my reputation. Didn't bother me much, because I only had plans to hit her and quit her.
What's the beef though OP, are you looking for a relationship now or something?
 

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_sideways_ said:
Like for real.. .its annoying now how that's my rep....also im super fun, but "quality" girls will pass on me cuz im fun and heartless...

Yea i know. Big deal, thats why im dating young chicks but i have a heart...like, it sucks being called player or heartless and they mean it.

Can't you just date OUTSIDE your social circle?

Surely there must be one or two women ON THE PLANET who've never heard of you or your reputation.
 

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_sideways_ said:
Like for real.. .its annoying now how that's my rep....also im super fun, but "quality" girls will pass on me cuz im fun and heartless...

Yea i know. Big deal, thats why im dating young chicks but i have a heart...like, it sucks being called player or heartless and they mean it.

Part of you is still glad you have the player reputation. You can settle down with a girl whenever you want to (if that's really what you want) but part of you still wants to pump and dump.
 
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On average with yall how long do u end up sleeping with girls till they are forcing u to commit or they walk? And how do u keep it a friends with benefits? Obvioisly saying that to a girl turns her off so WTF!?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Its not that im looking to marry anyone but when i try to porttay the innocent act someone spills the beans that im hard to tie down, got the wandering eye, etc.

And i do want to bang the super shy innocent ones...as well as the sloots.
 
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