"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what would u do if ur seen as the guy who just runs thru women

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Like for real.. .its annoying now how that's my rep....also im super fun, but "quality" girls will pass on me cuz im fun and heartless...

Yea i know. Big deal, thats why im dating young chicks but i have a heart...like, it sucks being called player or heartless and they mean it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have that issue in a few social circles because I've banged multiple chicks in said social circles. But I've never lied. Never promised a relationship or any commitment on my part. So Im not really shamed.

I'll say this.. F#ck em good(guilty) and they will tell all their friends and the horny ones will want to experiment with you. F#ck em bad(guilty, whiskey d#ck) you wont bang anyone else in that group.
So it can be spinned to your advantage.

I've only had one chick pass on me because of my reputation. Didn't bother me much, because I only had plans to hit her and quit her.
What's the beef though OP, are you looking for a relationship now or something?
 
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_sideways_ said:
Like for real.. .its annoying now how that's my rep....also im super fun, but "quality" girls will pass on me cuz im fun and heartless...

Yea i know. Big deal, thats why im dating young chicks but i have a heart...like, it sucks being called player or heartless and they mean it.
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Can't you just date OUTSIDE your social circle?

Surely there must be one or two women ON THE PLANET who've never heard of you or your reputation.
 
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_sideways_ said:
Like for real.. .its annoying now how that's my rep....also im super fun, but "quality" girls will pass on me cuz im fun and heartless...

Yea i know. Big deal, thats why im dating young chicks but i have a heart...like, it sucks being called player or heartless and they mean it.
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Part of you is still glad you have the player reputation. You can settle down with a girl whenever you want to (if that's really what you want) but part of you still wants to pump and dump.
 
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On average with yall how long do u end up sleeping with girls till they are forcing u to commit or they walk? And how do u keep it a friends with benefits? Obvioisly saying that to a girl turns her off so WTF!?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Its not that im looking to marry anyone but when i try to porttay the innocent act someone spills the beans that im hard to tie down, got the wandering eye, etc.

And i do want to bang the super shy innocent ones...as well as the sloots.
 
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