DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
It seems like bench-press has only been working out my lower chest. What works out upper chest? Does incline help?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
what works upper chest?
- Thread starter DJ_in_making
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
vanwilder
Senior Don Juan
i thought this was a joke. anything incline would work your upper pecs
brucevangeorge
Banned
What about inner chest?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
vanwilder
Senior Don Juan
i agree. but w/e if you want to get that striations look in your chest, go more for cables crossovers and just repeat the crossover part, that kills it, and flyes. but really there is no inner chest muscles.
RaWBLooD
Master Don Juan
incline will help, but you can't isolate the top part of your chest, in theory the fibers of your pectoralis major will be more fully contracted at the top when doing incline so that will help, what helps create a nice round chest is overall size tho.