now if someone on forum offends me i will tell him OK im not mad at you bro because i know youre just s.hit testing me
"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
what was the purpose of her doing this?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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I mean i did catch her staring at me all day. Which means nothing but what this a sh!t test or she thinks nothing of me
humans stare at:
nice things
things they want to kill
i doubt she wants to kill u.
YES SHE LIKEZ U
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Love the sarcasm
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
tbh women dont **** test me usually, the ones who did it seemed like they have more options than just me
also it doesnt even look like a **** test in ur case, more like she recognizd him as more handsome than u and immediately thought shes out of his league
now he just tells you "the handsome guy" cus thats how she remembered him. eg. the fat guy, the old guy
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Gotcha
FlexpertHamilton
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Men don't **** test other men in anywhere near the same way or reasons that a women do it.
of course i was joking, you dont need to take it so seriously. i never said men sh.it test other men
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What do you guys mean by letting a woman pull you into there frame
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
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In this situation where she wanted to make you look weak if you go with it your in her frame.