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what was the purpose of her doing this?

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I said to her ill go get his number for you and she laughed and said i think he's gay anyway...
 

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I said to her ill go get his number for you and she laughed and said i think he's gay anyway...
Did that Not tell how badly she had been playing you when you may have still had time to save your effort ?
If not, switch to men Ryan.
 

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Even if she was interested, who needs that kind of cra

The problem I have with this is why reward her for bad behavior by showing her more interest?
I don’t necessarily see it as bad behaviour. It’s just human nature. A lot of people will pretend they were never really into someone after getting rejected or if they feel that certain someone doesn’t like them like that in return. it’s a way to protect their fragile ego.
 
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You're a cuck for even engaging in conversation with this woman who is clearly either not sexually attracted to you or sees you as a whipping post.
True it is cvck. The woman put him into the cvck or "dead dyck" position, and he's still trying to hang around.
 

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How am I hanging around? Lol I stopped talking to her and went to talk to another group of females lol I didn't follow her around and beg I made a joke she said dude was hot then thought be was gay. I laughed and walked away....
 

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How am I hanging around? Lol I stopped talking to her and went to talk to another group of females lol I didn't follow her around and beg I made a joke she said dude was hot then thought be was gay. I laughed and walked away....
Very good! You see how cvcking is about the energy? If you hung in that situation, you would be "dead dyck" and "impotent" Ryan...
 

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Dude was 6'3 jacked with tattoos yeah he was a good looking guy
I feel you. When any one of us feels that kinda energy we need to be "out", unless it's a bytch that brings us females or something else spectacular.
 

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Aren't you one of the posters that received countless nuggets of advice and ceased to improve or learn...?
 

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I would have told her to go over and grab his crotch. Fed her the usual "be a sexual woman" schtick I reserve for girls who try to friendzone me.

I like the idea of suggesting a threesome though. I wouldn't have thought of that.
 

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I said to her ill go get his number for you and she laughed and said i think he's gay anyway...
Women who ask you “Are you gay?” are attracted to you and wonder why their femininity, which normally makes men cave, isn’t enough for you.

Book of Pook
 

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ok out on the boat with some buddies cute chick on my other buddies boat came on with her friend. Noticed she was staring at me throughout the day. Started some small talk nothing crazy she then moved over to me at the bar and was obviously flirting with me a bit. But she randomly kept telling me how hot this other guy was. She was like I want his number he's so hot etc etc. I was like you want me to get it for you. She laughed and said no. Fast forward me and her still talking but she brought up how hot the guy like 2 more times while looking at me. Was this a sh!t test? I was like ugh OK guess she isnt interested in me. Girl was smoking hot. Needless to say I walked away to go hit on other chicks. But was she basically telling me like im not interested in you hes hotter?
I would try to joke about a 3some. Not to pass the test but to actually see how she responds

If it really was a test, then you pass it
Eventually you would realize she is actually into
Worst case scenario you would realize shes toxic, still pass the test
 
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Women who ask you “Are you gay?” are attracted to you and wonder why their femininity, which normally makes men cave, isn’t enough for you.

Book of Pook
She didn't ask if I was gay she said he was gay
 

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How am I hanging around? Lol I stopped talking to her and went to talk to another group of females lol I didn't follow her around and beg I made a joke she said dude was hot then thought be was gay. I laughed and walked away....
You did the right thing by walking away. Is she fckable? Maybe but women who say this shyt overtly are only good for secs. Not very classy. But to be expected these days.
Not the gay part. I like the ladies with a bit more cooth.
 

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She didn't ask if I was gay she said he was gay
Gotcha man. Next time that happens say.
"He does look guy" im going to talk to him he is kinda hawt" then go over and chat with the dude. Ofcourse for fun sakes. Then go from there. Dude might cool. Maybe the 2 will marry and you can fck her maid of honor after the reception? Who knows were the road goes lol
 

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Listen fam, this woman was sh*t testing you for sure. B+tches like that are used to getting all the attention and having their way. You did good by walking away. Those typa women need to be handled with extreme contrasts. What does that mean? Either you go full aggressive mode and tell her that you didn't even listen to what she said and you wanna f+ck her or you act like she isn't even in your presence and make a quick U-turn.

Who is she that she tries to walk up to you like that and provoke you? Is she attracted to that other mofo? Probably, yes. Maybe she tried getting to him first and then to you, after she failed. Maybe you were her first choice. Either way, don't play along with chicks that are hot but try to pull you into their frame.
 

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Ryan- you have been here for 3.5 years. The only thing that has changed in your posts is the woman it was about.

Think about that. Your frame needs major work. I dont see any other reason that ANY woman would pull this shyte on a guy unless she sees him as an easy cuck target.
 

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There is a lot to what you said. The more attractive a woman, ironically the more sensitive she is to *perceived* rejection. When most guys fall all over her, not doing so can make her think you are rejecting her. Obviously being just like everyone else is not the answer, but it helps to see what is happening.
This is so true. The kneejerk SS reaction is "she's low interest" and to settle for the girl sending out obvious IOIs. Attractive girls aren't always going to put themselves out there for high value guys. Unfortunately her social skills are bad and she did not handle it well.

I also noticed some posters here reacted by hypothetically taking it personally. I don't see the point in that, unless you can clearly see her intention was disrespect instead of just idiocy.
 
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