"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
what to say if your GF keeps trying to get in your pants??
- Thread starter Knicknack
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
No, seriously though, tell her you've got sh*t to do.
A lot of people here are either:
A) Trying to gain confidence
B) Trying to date
C) Get laid
So go for it, before you want it and she says no.
--iMat
The Bartender
Senior Don Juan
Seriously, you're declining sex/oral?
Heizen
Senior Don Juan
Simple, give me her number. She wont bother you for sex every again, she will just come to me instead
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
MrCode
Senior Don Juan
Despite the replies of the incredibly horny guys above me, I think this is fine.
But I'm having a hard time figuring out what I would do in this situation. I mean she might get pissed and start denying you sex when you want it if you say no too many times. Oh well, that sounds like an AFC mindset to me, so just lay down the law and tell her no, and if she gets pissed, tough. If she wants it that bad she'll come around.
i got sick of being rejected
so one time she came onto me. i told her not in the mood.. even though i ALWAYS am.
she got cut, then stopped rejecting me sex as much now.. i need to do it more often i think..
Dukester
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.