"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
what to say if your GF keeps trying to get in your pants??
- Thread starter Knicknack
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
No, seriously though, tell her you've got sh*t to do.
A lot of people here are either:
A) Trying to gain confidence
B) Trying to date
C) Get laid
So go for it, before you want it and she says no.
--iMat
The Bartender
Senior Don Juan
Seriously, you're declining sex/oral?
Heizen
Senior Don Juan
Simple, give me her number. She wont bother you for sex every again, she will just come to me instead
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
MrCode
Senior Don Juan
Despite the replies of the incredibly horny guys above me, I think this is fine.
But I'm having a hard time figuring out what I would do in this situation. I mean she might get pissed and start denying you sex when you want it if you say no too many times. Oh well, that sounds like an AFC mindset to me, so just lay down the law and tell her no, and if she gets pissed, tough. If she wants it that bad she'll come around.
i got sick of being rejected
so one time she came onto me. i told her not in the mood.. even though i ALWAYS am.
she got cut, then stopped rejecting me sex as much now.. i need to do it more often i think..
Dukester
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.