"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
what to say if your GF keeps trying to get in your pants??
- Thread starter Knicknack
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
No, seriously though, tell her you've got sh*t to do.
A lot of people here are either:
A) Trying to gain confidence
B) Trying to date
C) Get laid
So go for it, before you want it and she says no.
--iMat
The Bartender
Senior Don Juan
Seriously, you're declining sex/oral?
Heizen
Senior Don Juan
Simple, give me her number. She wont bother you for sex every again, she will just come to me instead
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MrCode
Senior Don Juan
Despite the replies of the incredibly horny guys above me, I think this is fine.
But I'm having a hard time figuring out what I would do in this situation. I mean she might get pissed and start denying you sex when you want it if you say no too many times. Oh well, that sounds like an AFC mindset to me, so just lay down the law and tell her no, and if she gets pissed, tough. If she wants it that bad she'll come around.
i got sick of being rejected
so one time she came onto me. i told her not in the mood.. even though i ALWAYS am.
she got cut, then stopped rejecting me sex as much now.. i need to do it more often i think..
Dukester
Master Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.