"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
what to say if your GF keeps trying to get in your pants??
- Thread starter Knicknack
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
No, seriously though, tell her you've got sh*t to do.
A lot of people here are either:
A) Trying to gain confidence
B) Trying to date
C) Get laid
So go for it, before you want it and she says no.
--iMat
The Bartender
Senior Don Juan
Seriously, you're declining sex/oral?
Heizen
Senior Don Juan
Simple, give me her number. She wont bother you for sex every again, she will just come to me instead
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MrCode
Senior Don Juan
Despite the replies of the incredibly horny guys above me, I think this is fine.
But I'm having a hard time figuring out what I would do in this situation. I mean she might get pissed and start denying you sex when you want it if you say no too many times. Oh well, that sounds like an AFC mindset to me, so just lay down the law and tell her no, and if she gets pissed, tough. If she wants it that bad she'll come around.
i got sick of being rejected
so one time she came onto me. i told her not in the mood.. even though i ALWAYS am.
she got cut, then stopped rejecting me sex as much now.. i need to do it more often i think..
Dukester
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.