she barely talks in our conversation. Like I called up my gf yesterday and even though she was painting, I would ask her all these questions and only give me short answers. (one or two words) How can she expect me to talk 2 her and have fun with it when that is all she does.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What to do when...
- Thread starter bud_2005
- Start date
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Marf
Don Juan
Either you should be asking other questions that make her give longer answers.... or you should be telling stories and such
ask more personal questions that wouldnt have one or two word answers such as"how was your day?""what did you do today?".those open ended questions allow her to give you the chance to ask questions on top of that.examples
you-hey how was your day?
her - great!,boring,exciting etc.
you- no way! how come(works with any response)
her - blah blah blah etc.
there is a example
you-hey how was your day?
her - great!,boring,exciting etc.
you- no way! how come(works with any response)
her - blah blah blah etc.
there is a example
vanwilder
Senior Don Juan
or you could have said is anything significant happen at work or something along those lines that require a longer answer. with asking how work was, she will simply reply with a one word sentence as that is all that is needed to answer the question. be broad with the statement while yet asking for some detail i guess 
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
what tone of voice is she using ?
happy to hear from you?
bored to death of you?
listen for the tone.
happy to hear from you?
bored to death of you?
listen for the tone.