"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bud_2005

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she barely talks in our conversation. Like I called up my gf yesterday and even though she was painting, I would ask her all these questions and only give me short answers. (one or two words) How can she expect me to talk 2 her and have fun with it when that is all she does.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Either you should be asking other questions that make her give longer answers.... or you should be telling stories and such
 

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ask more personal questions that wouldnt have one or two word answers such as"how was your day?""what did you do today?".those open ended questions allow her to give you the chance to ask questions on top of that.examples
you-hey how was your day?
her - great!,boring,exciting etc.
you- no way! how come(works with any response)
her - blah blah blah etc.

there is a example
 

bud_2005

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Well like some examples were I asked her what she did today and all she said was "work". I asked her how that went and she said "good". And it kind of went like that.
 

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or you could have said is anything significant happen at work or something along those lines that require a longer answer. with asking how work was, she will simply reply with a one word sentence as that is all that is needed to answer the question. be broad with the statement while yet asking for some detail i guess :p
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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blinkwatt

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hmm well her tone of voice may be more important in this case if she is a lady of small words.how is her attitude during the conversation?
 

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what tone of voice is she using ?
happy to hear from you?
bored to death of you?

listen for the tone.
 
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