she barely talks in our conversation. Like I called up my gf yesterday and even though she was painting, I would ask her all these questions and only give me short answers. (one or two words) How can she expect me to talk 2 her and have fun with it when that is all she does.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What to do when...
- Thread starter bud_2005
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Marf
Don Juan
Either you should be asking other questions that make her give longer answers.... or you should be telling stories and such
ask more personal questions that wouldnt have one or two word answers such as"how was your day?""what did you do today?".those open ended questions allow her to give you the chance to ask questions on top of that.examples
you-hey how was your day?
her - great!,boring,exciting etc.
you- no way! how come(works with any response)
her - blah blah blah etc.
there is a example
you-hey how was your day?
her - great!,boring,exciting etc.
you- no way! how come(works with any response)
her - blah blah blah etc.
there is a example
vanwilder
Senior Don Juan
or you could have said is anything significant happen at work or something along those lines that require a longer answer. with asking how work was, she will simply reply with a one word sentence as that is all that is needed to answer the question. be broad with the statement while yet asking for some detail i guess 
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
what tone of voice is she using ?
happy to hear from you?
bored to death of you?
listen for the tone.
happy to hear from you?
bored to death of you?
listen for the tone.