“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What to do when you're not sure a girl has a boyfriend?
- Thread starter nicksaiz65
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MatureDJ
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Yes, you don't want to end up like this guy:
http://newswebexpress.com/jealous-husband-kills-wifes-lover-in-matrimonial-bed/
CMNILS87
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If she gave you her number, it DOES NOT MATTER. Wait 2 days, tell her you’ve been busy, ask her out,go out on date, kiss her. What’s so hard?
nicksaiz65
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Yeah I’ve been meaning to reread it for a while now. It’s been 2 years since I’ve read it cover to cover.
Do you remember what section that advice is in? I may just be rusty, but I don’t seem to remember reading anything like that.
And I definitely plan on getting her out as soon as my schedule frees up.
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I got this girls number. She has my contact and I want to invite her out for some drinks. Thing is, she might have someone but she didn’t say. Should my first text be straight to the point asking her out?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Don't ask her about her boyfriend untill she introduces this thing by herself. Just ask her out, be man to woman and hold nice masculine frame, even if she has boyfriend, hypergamy will make her cheat.