I went on a few dates with a girl (4) and we hit it off really good, our work schedules this summer havent been the best for seeing each other so its been hard, anyways it was my bday yesterday and I didnt get a phone call or a text hell not even a facebook message lol. I think thats a sign to officially next her.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What to do when a girl youre dating forgets your bday?
- Thread starter mtlwlu
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Erm, how do you expect a girl to even know when your birthday is if you've had 4 dates and haven't even seen her in a while?
If she didn't go on facebook that day, I'm guessing she never even knew.
And you're gonna 'next' her for that? I wouldn't even be p1ssed off with my best mates if they forgot my birthday
If she didn't go on facebook that day, I'm guessing she never even knew.
And you're gonna 'next' her for that? I wouldn't even be p1ssed off with my best mates if they forgot my birthday
scrouds
Master Don Juan
make up sex. duh
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
