I went on a few dates with a girl (4) and we hit it off really good, our work schedules this summer havent been the best for seeing each other so its been hard, anyways it was my bday yesterday and I didnt get a phone call or a text hell not even a facebook message lol. I think thats a sign to officially next her.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What to do when a girl youre dating forgets your bday?
- Thread starter mtlwlu
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Erm, how do you expect a girl to even know when your birthday is if you've had 4 dates and haven't even seen her in a while?
If she didn't go on facebook that day, I'm guessing she never even knew.
And you're gonna 'next' her for that? I wouldn't even be p1ssed off with my best mates if they forgot my birthday
If she didn't go on facebook that day, I'm guessing she never even knew.
And you're gonna 'next' her for that? I wouldn't even be p1ssed off with my best mates if they forgot my birthday
scrouds
Master Don Juan
make up sex. duh
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
