I went on a few dates with a girl (4) and we hit it off really good, our work schedules this summer havent been the best for seeing each other so its been hard, anyways it was my bday yesterday and I didnt get a phone call or a text hell not even a facebook message lol. I think thats a sign to officially next her.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What to do when a girl youre dating forgets your bday?
- Thread starter mtlwlu
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Erm, how do you expect a girl to even know when your birthday is if you've had 4 dates and haven't even seen her in a while?
If she didn't go on facebook that day, I'm guessing she never even knew.
And you're gonna 'next' her for that? I wouldn't even be p1ssed off with my best mates if they forgot my birthday
If she didn't go on facebook that day, I'm guessing she never even knew.
And you're gonna 'next' her for that? I wouldn't even be p1ssed off with my best mates if they forgot my birthday
scrouds
Master Don Juan
make up sex. duh
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
