I went on a few dates with a girl (4) and we hit it off really good, our work schedules this summer havent been the best for seeing each other so its been hard, anyways it was my bday yesterday and I didnt get a phone call or a text hell not even a facebook message lol. I think thats a sign to officially next her.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What to do when a girl youre dating forgets your bday?
- Thread starter mtlwlu
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Erm, how do you expect a girl to even know when your birthday is if you've had 4 dates and haven't even seen her in a while?
If she didn't go on facebook that day, I'm guessing she never even knew.
And you're gonna 'next' her for that? I wouldn't even be p1ssed off with my best mates if they forgot my birthday
If she didn't go on facebook that day, I'm guessing she never even knew.
And you're gonna 'next' her for that? I wouldn't even be p1ssed off with my best mates if they forgot my birthday
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Master Don Juan
make up sex. duh
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
