“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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what to do, what to do

anx1ety

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I'm running out of ideas on what to do with my girlfriend.

She doesn't like iceskating, bowling, or putt-putt.

She's not romantic, so it's kinda hard to want to do something like that.

Any ideas? Thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Warrior74

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dude. She's your girlfriend. You know her better than we do. Or do you? Maybe you should get to know her.
 

anx1ety

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Warrior74 said:
dude. She's your girlfriend. You know her better than we do. Or do you? Maybe you should get to know her.
Correct. Stupid thread. I was just wondering if there were fun things to do I wasn't thinking of. I know what she does and doesn't like..was just curious if there were things outside of that.
 

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Are there any qualities besides her being a female that make you attracted to her and want to be with her?

If not its time to next.

Contrary to AFC beliefs its not better to have ANY woman than to be alone.

No.

Its better to be alone than to have a woman in your life who you're not attracted to and who doesn't enjoy the same things as you do or who you are attracted to but other than that you have nothing in common.

So your answer is most likely to find a girl who brings more to the table than just a warm body.

Well this is the post I'm running with anyway due to lack of much more information about your situation.
 

game.r

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do what you like and let her come along... in other words LEAD!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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anx1ety

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DarthNihilus said:
Are there any qualities besides her being a female that make you attracted to her and want to be with her?

If not its time to next.

Contrary to AFC beliefs its not better to have ANY woman than to be alone.

No.

Its better to be alone than to have a woman in your life who you're not attracted to and who doesn't enjoy the same things as you do or who you are attracted to but other than that you have nothing in common.

So your answer is most likely to find a girl who brings more to the table than just a warm body.

Well this is the post I'm running with anyway due to lack of much more information about your situation.
Lol, I like her for more than the fact she's a girl. I was just looking for more interesting things to do..not necessarily because I'm tired of the same old and she's unhappy doing anything.

Just asking for suggestions on other fun things to go out and do. Yall are whylin' haha.
 

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Ask her if she has any places in mind, or stuff she wants to do. If she doesn't, tell her to go shopping/fishing/swimming/bowling/etc. with you. If she says it's boring, or anything that indicates her disinterest, it's really time to go out with other girls if you haven't already. Unless of course, you like boring and inflexible women.

Ask her why she refuses to go out and have fun with you. If she doesn't want to go out, that's her problem. She can sit in the house and stare at the walls all day, but you got better things to do. You gave her a chance. She blew it.
 
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Jesus H Christ, this relationship is a complete joke mate. Why don't you do the things you like with her and gauge what she likes doing. I mean clearly her hobbies include acting completely deranged, stringing you a long and going "solo" to a highschool or whatever the hell it is.
 
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