Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
what to do, what to do
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Correct. Stupid thread. I was just wondering if there were fun things to do I wasn't thinking of. I know what she does and doesn't like..was just curious if there were things outside of that.Warrior74 said:dude. She's your girlfriend. You know her better than we do. Or do you? Maybe you should get to know her.
DarthNihilus
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If not its time to next.
Contrary to AFC beliefs its not better to have ANY woman than to be alone.
No.
Its better to be alone than to have a woman in your life who you're not attracted to and who doesn't enjoy the same things as you do or who you are attracted to but other than that you have nothing in common.
So your answer is most likely to find a girl who brings more to the table than just a warm body.
Well this is the post I'm running with anyway due to lack of much more information about your situation.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Lol, I like her for more than the fact she's a girl. I was just looking for more interesting things to do..not necessarily because I'm tired of the same old and she's unhappy doing anything.DarthNihilus said:Are there any qualities besides her being a female that make you attracted to her and want to be with her?
If not its time to next.
Contrary to AFC beliefs its not better to have ANY woman than to be alone.
No.
Its better to be alone than to have a woman in your life who you're not attracted to and who doesn't enjoy the same things as you do or who you are attracted to but other than that you have nothing in common.
So your answer is most likely to find a girl who brings more to the table than just a warm body.
Well this is the post I'm running with anyway due to lack of much more information about your situation.
Just asking for suggestions on other fun things to go out and do. Yall are whylin' haha.
playerone
Senior Don Juan
Ask her why she refuses to go out and have fun with you. If she doesn't want to go out, that's her problem. She can sit in the house and stare at the walls all day, but you got better things to do. You gave her a chance. She blew it.