"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
what to do, what to do
- Thread starter anx1ety
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Correct. Stupid thread. I was just wondering if there were fun things to do I wasn't thinking of. I know what she does and doesn't like..was just curious if there were things outside of that.Warrior74 said:dude. She's your girlfriend. You know her better than we do. Or do you? Maybe you should get to know her.
DarthNihilus
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If not its time to next.
Contrary to AFC beliefs its not better to have ANY woman than to be alone.
No.
Its better to be alone than to have a woman in your life who you're not attracted to and who doesn't enjoy the same things as you do or who you are attracted to but other than that you have nothing in common.
So your answer is most likely to find a girl who brings more to the table than just a warm body.
Well this is the post I'm running with anyway due to lack of much more information about your situation.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Lol, I like her for more than the fact she's a girl. I was just looking for more interesting things to do..not necessarily because I'm tired of the same old and she's unhappy doing anything.DarthNihilus said:Are there any qualities besides her being a female that make you attracted to her and want to be with her?
If not its time to next.
Contrary to AFC beliefs its not better to have ANY woman than to be alone.
No.
Its better to be alone than to have a woman in your life who you're not attracted to and who doesn't enjoy the same things as you do or who you are attracted to but other than that you have nothing in common.
So your answer is most likely to find a girl who brings more to the table than just a warm body.
Well this is the post I'm running with anyway due to lack of much more information about your situation.
Just asking for suggestions on other fun things to go out and do. Yall are whylin' haha.
playerone
Senior Don Juan
Ask her why she refuses to go out and have fun with you. If she doesn't want to go out, that's her problem. She can sit in the house and stare at the walls all day, but you got better things to do. You gave her a chance. She blew it.