Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
what to do, what to do
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Correct. Stupid thread. I was just wondering if there were fun things to do I wasn't thinking of. I know what she does and doesn't like..was just curious if there were things outside of that.Warrior74 said:dude. She's your girlfriend. You know her better than we do. Or do you? Maybe you should get to know her.
DarthNihilus
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If not its time to next.
Contrary to AFC beliefs its not better to have ANY woman than to be alone.
No.
Its better to be alone than to have a woman in your life who you're not attracted to and who doesn't enjoy the same things as you do or who you are attracted to but other than that you have nothing in common.
So your answer is most likely to find a girl who brings more to the table than just a warm body.
Well this is the post I'm running with anyway due to lack of much more information about your situation.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Lol, I like her for more than the fact she's a girl. I was just looking for more interesting things to do..not necessarily because I'm tired of the same old and she's unhappy doing anything.DarthNihilus said:Are there any qualities besides her being a female that make you attracted to her and want to be with her?
If not its time to next.
Contrary to AFC beliefs its not better to have ANY woman than to be alone.
No.
Its better to be alone than to have a woman in your life who you're not attracted to and who doesn't enjoy the same things as you do or who you are attracted to but other than that you have nothing in common.
So your answer is most likely to find a girl who brings more to the table than just a warm body.
Well this is the post I'm running with anyway due to lack of much more information about your situation.
Just asking for suggestions on other fun things to go out and do. Yall are whylin' haha.
playerone
Senior Don Juan
Ask her why she refuses to go out and have fun with you. If she doesn't want to go out, that's her problem. She can sit in the house and stare at the walls all day, but you got better things to do. You gave her a chance. She blew it.