"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What the hell is wrong with me....

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I honestly can't date multiple girls.....

I always end up focusing on one, its not that I put them on a pedastel or anything. But find one I like and then all other girls no longer seem attractive at all.

Start of march met this girl, not massively pretty nor special but I got connected. Stood her up tho because I was ill (can't go out the house vomiting type ill, lasted for two weeks). She got all moody and thought I was playing games with her, so I cut contact.

Was out getting petrol. Hot girl that works starts chatting to me. I'm just on auto pilot just nodding looking into her eyes mentally undressing her not actually saying much. Was totally into me, but all I did was finally say, "anyways I must go nice meeting you and walked off".

All because I'm still hung up on march girl. Went on pof out of boredom last night, got this real hot girl asking for my number. I should be snapping up, but just can't be bothered.

In a week or two I'll have a different mindset and be open to girls again.....


Any ideas why I'm like this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Like why do I only get attracted to one girl at a time?
 
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u r a young guy with no experience, no self esteem, and no ability?
 
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Oneitis.

It's like that kid neighbor you grew up, went to college and worked with. You later find out he was banging your mom and sister.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Guess I just get mini onitis..... Weird how other girls are easier when i have a case of it.
 
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Loki.7 said:
Guess I just get mini onitis..... Weird how other girls are easier when i have a case of it.
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They notice that you are not that interested in them which creates a challenge which creates attraction.
 
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NobodyCares1 said:
They notice that you are not that interested in them which creates a challenge which creates attraction.
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Yeah I guessed that... Can't see the point in wanting someone more because they don't give a crap about them. Kinda dumb if you ask me, meh that's women for you.

And does put the question in my mind why do I even bother to try to understand or care about this stuff.

Is devoting time to learning and understanding the irrational even worth my time.....
 
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BeginningDJ said:
Oneitis.

It's like that kid neighbor you grew up, went to college and worked with. You later find out he was banging your mom and sister.
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Lol BDJ I don't see how what you're describing is oneitis
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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