"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What the hell is wrong with me....

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I honestly can't date multiple girls.....

I always end up focusing on one, its not that I put them on a pedastel or anything. But find one I like and then all other girls no longer seem attractive at all.

Start of march met this girl, not massively pretty nor special but I got connected. Stood her up tho because I was ill (can't go out the house vomiting type ill, lasted for two weeks). She got all moody and thought I was playing games with her, so I cut contact.

Was out getting petrol. Hot girl that works starts chatting to me. I'm just on auto pilot just nodding looking into her eyes mentally undressing her not actually saying much. Was totally into me, but all I did was finally say, "anyways I must go nice meeting you and walked off".

All because I'm still hung up on march girl. Went on pof out of boredom last night, got this real hot girl asking for my number. I should be snapping up, but just can't be bothered.

In a week or two I'll have a different mindset and be open to girls again.....


Any ideas why I'm like this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Like why do I only get attracted to one girl at a time?
 
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u r a young guy with no experience, no self esteem, and no ability?
 
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Oneitis.

It's like that kid neighbor you grew up, went to college and worked with. You later find out he was banging your mom and sister.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Guess I just get mini onitis..... Weird how other girls are easier when i have a case of it.
 
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Loki.7 said:
Guess I just get mini onitis..... Weird how other girls are easier when i have a case of it.
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They notice that you are not that interested in them which creates a challenge which creates attraction.
 
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They notice that you are not that interested in them which creates a challenge which creates attraction.
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Yeah I guessed that... Can't see the point in wanting someone more because they don't give a crap about them. Kinda dumb if you ask me, meh that's women for you.

And does put the question in my mind why do I even bother to try to understand or care about this stuff.

Is devoting time to learning and understanding the irrational even worth my time.....
 
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BeginningDJ said:
Oneitis.

It's like that kid neighbor you grew up, went to college and worked with. You later find out he was banging your mom and sister.
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Lol BDJ I don't see how what you're describing is oneitis
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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