I went to this party and there was this girl that I know. I was dressed all nice with a suit and tie. She kept smiling at me. So I went to the washroom and when i got out she was in the lobby. She comes up to me and gives me her card were she works. We kept talking and whatever. I find out shes a realtor. This party was on a friday, I call this girl on sunday and she didnt answer and I didnt leave a message. I call agian today and she didnt answer so this time I leave a message. I leave a message saying that I need to ask her about realestate. How long should I wait for her to call? Should I call her back if she doesnt call in a week?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What should I do?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
This girls fine ass hell. I got a lady but this girl finer.http://www.sosuave.net/forum/images/smilies//whistle.gif
Who calls on the weekend to ask a real estate question? Right there you gave an excuse for your previous call. You should've held back until today. If she kept smiling, she didn't give you the card to discuss business.
"Hey, ABC this is XYZ. Some friends and I are going out for drinks on ___, you should come with us, we'll have a fun time. If you need to reach me 555-5555, bye." Pending this was a work number.
If she's interested, she'd call you. If not, then you move on to another girl. But you shouldn't be help up with just 1 anyways.
"Hey, ABC this is XYZ. Some friends and I are going out for drinks on ___, you should come with us, we'll have a fun time. If you need to reach me 555-5555, bye." Pending this was a work number.
If she's interested, she'd call you. If not, then you move on to another girl. But you shouldn't be help up with just 1 anyways.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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What was your conversation like at the party?
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Come on man, you've been here since Sept. I think you've taken indirect approach to the extreme. I don't recommend lying as to why you're calling. What's wrong with wanting to talk to girls?
Our conversation was about how I been, how she's been and what you been up to? She told me shes real busy with work. But when she approached me she just gave me her card. She said when ever you need help buying a house or something heres my card with a smile. I'm thinkng shes busy with work and she'll call me this weekend. The real estate thing was an excuse to call but I realy wanna get into real estate and I was going to ask her about where she went to to get her real estate liscense.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.