I went to this party and there was this girl that I know. I was dressed all nice with a suit and tie. She kept smiling at me. So I went to the washroom and when i got out she was in the lobby. She comes up to me and gives me her card were she works. We kept talking and whatever. I find out shes a realtor. This party was on a friday, I call this girl on sunday and she didnt answer and I didnt leave a message. I call agian today and she didnt answer so this time I leave a message. I leave a message saying that I need to ask her about realestate. How long should I wait for her to call? Should I call her back if she doesnt call in a week?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What should I do?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This girls fine ass hell. I got a lady but this girl finer.http://www.sosuave.net/forum/images/smilies//whistle.gif
Who calls on the weekend to ask a real estate question? Right there you gave an excuse for your previous call. You should've held back until today. If she kept smiling, she didn't give you the card to discuss business.
"Hey, ABC this is XYZ. Some friends and I are going out for drinks on ___, you should come with us, we'll have a fun time. If you need to reach me 555-5555, bye." Pending this was a work number.
If she's interested, she'd call you. If not, then you move on to another girl. But you shouldn't be help up with just 1 anyways.
"Hey, ABC this is XYZ. Some friends and I are going out for drinks on ___, you should come with us, we'll have a fun time. If you need to reach me 555-5555, bye." Pending this was a work number.
If she's interested, she'd call you. If not, then you move on to another girl. But you shouldn't be help up with just 1 anyways.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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What was your conversation like at the party?
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Come on man, you've been here since Sept. I think you've taken indirect approach to the extreme. I don't recommend lying as to why you're calling. What's wrong with wanting to talk to girls?
Our conversation was about how I been, how she's been and what you been up to? She told me shes real busy with work. But when she approached me she just gave me her card. She said when ever you need help buying a house or something heres my card with a smile. I'm thinkng shes busy with work and she'll call me this weekend. The real estate thing was an excuse to call but I realy wanna get into real estate and I was going to ask her about where she went to to get her real estate liscense.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.