I went to this party and there was this girl that I know. I was dressed all nice with a suit and tie. She kept smiling at me. So I went to the washroom and when i got out she was in the lobby. She comes up to me and gives me her card were she works. We kept talking and whatever. I find out shes a realtor. This party was on a friday, I call this girl on sunday and she didnt answer and I didnt leave a message. I call agian today and she didnt answer so this time I leave a message. I leave a message saying that I need to ask her about realestate. How long should I wait for her to call? Should I call her back if she doesnt call in a week?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What should I do?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This girls fine ass hell. I got a lady but this girl finer.http://www.sosuave.net/forum/images/smilies//whistle.gif
Who calls on the weekend to ask a real estate question? Right there you gave an excuse for your previous call. You should've held back until today. If she kept smiling, she didn't give you the card to discuss business.
"Hey, ABC this is XYZ. Some friends and I are going out for drinks on ___, you should come with us, we'll have a fun time. If you need to reach me 555-5555, bye." Pending this was a work number.
If she's interested, she'd call you. If not, then you move on to another girl. But you shouldn't be help up with just 1 anyways.
"Hey, ABC this is XYZ. Some friends and I are going out for drinks on ___, you should come with us, we'll have a fun time. If you need to reach me 555-5555, bye." Pending this was a work number.
If she's interested, she'd call you. If not, then you move on to another girl. But you shouldn't be help up with just 1 anyways.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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What was your conversation like at the party?
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Come on man, you've been here since Sept. I think you've taken indirect approach to the extreme. I don't recommend lying as to why you're calling. What's wrong with wanting to talk to girls?
Our conversation was about how I been, how she's been and what you been up to? She told me shes real busy with work. But when she approached me she just gave me her card. She said when ever you need help buying a house or something heres my card with a smile. I'm thinkng shes busy with work and she'll call me this weekend. The real estate thing was an excuse to call but I realy wanna get into real estate and I was going to ask her about where she went to to get her real estate liscense.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.