Bgarrido
Don Juan
I just found out this girl i like has a boyfriend.... I don't know what I should do about it, should i keep going after her or just give up 
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
What should I do about this
- Thread starter Bgarrido
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
If she is really serious with her bf, I would say stay away. However If they have just recently met, its time to execute the art of disarming.
Personally I wouldn't, I hate drama but hey thats just me buddy.
Personally I wouldn't, I hate drama but hey thats just me buddy.
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NorwegianDJ
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Going for several girls solves so many problems.
Bgarrido
Don Juan
I don't want to give up on this girl just yet....
What is disarming?
What is disarming?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Just go for other girls at the same time. You dont have to give up.Bgarrido said:I don't want to give up on this girl just yet....
What is disarming?
I dont know what it is, but I think I've done it.
Bgarrido
Don Juan
aha aight i feel you, so just keep talking to her but back off some?
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Lol, its funny how my buddies come up with crazy terms such as "Disarming".
Well, I would say disarming a guy is literally that, it especially works on guys who are insecure and jealous.
So you go up to the girl, and make her feel loved and appreciated, you give her the freedom to exist and be herself around you, you accept her as she is.
Pretty much, you won't even have to date her by the time she wants to fall for you.
So what happens at this point? You chill. The boyfriend will obviously interrogate(Provided he is jealous and insecure) her thus, in a paradox kinda way, will her push her even me into more in your arms without any more effort on your behalf.
Use with care, its lethal.
Well, I would say disarming a guy is literally that, it especially works on guys who are insecure and jealous.
So you go up to the girl, and make her feel loved and appreciated, you give her the freedom to exist and be herself around you, you accept her as she is.
Pretty much, you won't even have to date her by the time she wants to fall for you.
So what happens at this point? You chill. The boyfriend will obviously interrogate(Provided he is jealous and insecure) her thus, in a paradox kinda way, will her push her even me into more in your arms without any more effort on your behalf.
Use with care, its lethal.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.