Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What place you choose for a first date and WHY?

What kind of date you usually go for and WHY?

  • 1. Expensive restaurant ( more than $15-17 per person)

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 2. Moderate restaurant (less then $15-$17 per person)

    Votes: 2 10.5%
  • 3. Coffee at a cafe\coffe house like Starbuck

    Votes: 7 36.8%
  • 4. Coffee at some other place like a nice mall where you can stroll a bit

    Votes: 3 15.8%
  • 5. Art gallery, museum etc

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 6. A stroll in the park\city

    Votes: 2 10.5%
  • 7. Action date: from swimming to biking together

    Votes: 1 5.3%
  • 8. Other creative choice

    Votes: 4 21.1%

  • Total voters
    19

Francisco d'Anconia

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Re: Ah the train station ....

Originally posted by Bonhomme
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Good you have that skill, Francisco. I tend to be inconsistent, but am a pretty good listener. Once there's a good topic to latch onto, I can be very good, but sometimes I'm just a man of few words...
To you, what's the major difference between a good topic that you can latch onto as apposed to a bad one?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bonhomme

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Perhaps I worded that wrong, Francisco. It might be more accurate to say I tend to be at a loss for openers, absolutely dislike forcing a conversation. I'm very cool with silence.

I also seek to avoid a "job interview" sort of mode, which is a very common way in which coffee-house sort of dates get deadly dull, but don't have the consistent DeAngeloesque skills to deflect such a conversation if it does come up, and often end up coming across as evasive, flippant, or even difficult in such situations.

How do you typically handle a "job interview" type of discussion?
 

MoonieTX

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I took my last girl out to a comedy club. She loved it, were able to have a good laugh get close enough for kino and talk abit. But, it also stops you from having those awkward silences as something else is going on.
 
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