“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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What place you choose for a first date and WHY?

What kind of date you usually go for and WHY?

  • 1. Expensive restaurant ( more than $15-17 per person)

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 2. Moderate restaurant (less then $15-$17 per person)

    Votes: 2 10.5%
  • 3. Coffee at a cafe\coffe house like Starbuck

    Votes: 7 36.8%
  • 4. Coffee at some other place like a nice mall where you can stroll a bit

    Votes: 3 15.8%
  • 5. Art gallery, museum etc

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 6. A stroll in the park\city

    Votes: 2 10.5%
  • 7. Action date: from swimming to biking together

    Votes: 1 5.3%
  • 8. Other creative choice

    Votes: 4 21.1%

  • Total voters
    19

Francisco d'Anconia

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Re: Ah the train station ....

Originally posted by Bonhomme
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Good you have that skill, Francisco. I tend to be inconsistent, but am a pretty good listener. Once there's a good topic to latch onto, I can be very good, but sometimes I'm just a man of few words...
To you, what's the major difference between a good topic that you can latch onto as apposed to a bad one?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Bonhomme

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Perhaps I worded that wrong, Francisco. It might be more accurate to say I tend to be at a loss for openers, absolutely dislike forcing a conversation. I'm very cool with silence.

I also seek to avoid a "job interview" sort of mode, which is a very common way in which coffee-house sort of dates get deadly dull, but don't have the consistent DeAngeloesque skills to deflect such a conversation if it does come up, and often end up coming across as evasive, flippant, or even difficult in such situations.

How do you typically handle a "job interview" type of discussion?
 

MoonieTX

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I took my last girl out to a comedy club. She loved it, were able to have a good laugh get close enough for kino and talk abit. But, it also stops you from having those awkward silences as something else is going on.
 
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