jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
anymore cool websites to go on?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
:crackup:backbreaker said:okay....now what sites do you REALLY go on
www.myfreepaysite.com
i make a pit stop a couple of times a month.. can't beat it
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Post a warning that its a porn site!!backbreaker said:okay....now what sites do you REALLY go on
www.myfreepaysite.com
i make a pit stop a couple of times a month.. can't beat it
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
backbreaker said:everything is okay in moderation. like i said earlier... if it's a tuesday and I have to bet up at 6 in the morning and I don't feel like having company and I want to see some tits... porno here I come.. but I'm not sitting at home at 4 on a Thursday having a jackfest or anything
backbreaker said:seriously.. maybe 1 time a week. I just have too much **** to do..a nd I don't have a problem having women over my house when I want.. but sometimes that's not very convenient. Like now, it's 1:30am, i have to be up, or need to be u at around 8am, I'm not calling a girl over, spending 30 minutes talking or doing bull****, then fvcking.. by then it's 4am and I need to get 4 hours of sleep.. then when she gets up in the morning I"m going to hit it again.. soe I just ruined 2 days trying to chase ass.
spin your plates, don't let them spin you. of course, I haven't been in a sex mood all day long, and i f i were I would have made plans earlier today. But if I just got the sudden urge I usually try to just go to sleep, and if I can't....well..
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.