jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
anymore cool websites to go on?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
:crackup:backbreaker said:okay....now what sites do you REALLY go on
www.myfreepaysite.com
i make a pit stop a couple of times a month.. can't beat it
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Post a warning that its a porn site!!backbreaker said:okay....now what sites do you REALLY go on
www.myfreepaysite.com
i make a pit stop a couple of times a month.. can't beat it
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backbreaker said:everything is okay in moderation. like i said earlier... if it's a tuesday and I have to bet up at 6 in the morning and I don't feel like having company and I want to see some tits... porno here I come.. but I'm not sitting at home at 4 on a Thursday having a jackfest or anything
backbreaker said:seriously.. maybe 1 time a week. I just have too much **** to do..a nd I don't have a problem having women over my house when I want.. but sometimes that's not very convenient. Like now, it's 1:30am, i have to be up, or need to be u at around 8am, I'm not calling a girl over, spending 30 minutes talking or doing bull****, then fvcking.. by then it's 4am and I need to get 4 hours of sleep.. then when she gets up in the morning I"m going to hit it again.. soe I just ruined 2 days trying to chase ass.
spin your plates, don't let them spin you. of course, I haven't been in a sex mood all day long, and i f i were I would have made plans earlier today. But if I just got the sudden urge I usually try to just go to sleep, and if I can't....well..
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.