jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
anymore cool websites to go on?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
:crackup:backbreaker said:okay....now what sites do you REALLY go on
www.myfreepaysite.com
i make a pit stop a couple of times a month.. can't beat it
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Post a warning that its a porn site!!backbreaker said:okay....now what sites do you REALLY go on
www.myfreepaysite.com
i make a pit stop a couple of times a month.. can't beat it
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
backbreaker said:everything is okay in moderation. like i said earlier... if it's a tuesday and I have to bet up at 6 in the morning and I don't feel like having company and I want to see some tits... porno here I come.. but I'm not sitting at home at 4 on a Thursday having a jackfest or anything
backbreaker said:seriously.. maybe 1 time a week. I just have too much **** to do..a nd I don't have a problem having women over my house when I want.. but sometimes that's not very convenient. Like now, it's 1:30am, i have to be up, or need to be u at around 8am, I'm not calling a girl over, spending 30 minutes talking or doing bull****, then fvcking.. by then it's 4am and I need to get 4 hours of sleep.. then when she gets up in the morning I"m going to hit it again.. soe I just ruined 2 days trying to chase ass.
spin your plates, don't let them spin you. of course, I haven't been in a sex mood all day long, and i f i were I would have made plans earlier today. But if I just got the sudden urge I usually try to just go to sleep, and if I can't....well..
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.