jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
anymore cool websites to go on?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
:crackup:backbreaker said:okay....now what sites do you REALLY go on
www.myfreepaysite.com
i make a pit stop a couple of times a month.. can't beat it
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Post a warning that its a porn site!!backbreaker said:okay....now what sites do you REALLY go on
www.myfreepaysite.com
i make a pit stop a couple of times a month.. can't beat it
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backbreaker said:everything is okay in moderation. like i said earlier... if it's a tuesday and I have to bet up at 6 in the morning and I don't feel like having company and I want to see some tits... porno here I come.. but I'm not sitting at home at 4 on a Thursday having a jackfest or anything
backbreaker said:seriously.. maybe 1 time a week. I just have too much **** to do..a nd I don't have a problem having women over my house when I want.. but sometimes that's not very convenient. Like now, it's 1:30am, i have to be up, or need to be u at around 8am, I'm not calling a girl over, spending 30 minutes talking or doing bull****, then fvcking.. by then it's 4am and I need to get 4 hours of sleep.. then when she gets up in the morning I"m going to hit it again.. soe I just ruined 2 days trying to chase ass.
spin your plates, don't let them spin you. of course, I haven't been in a sex mood all day long, and i f i were I would have made plans earlier today. But if I just got the sudden urge I usually try to just go to sleep, and if I can't....well..
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.