jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
anymore cool websites to go on?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
:crackup:backbreaker said:okay....now what sites do you REALLY go on
www.myfreepaysite.com
i make a pit stop a couple of times a month.. can't beat it
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Post a warning that its a porn site!!backbreaker said:okay....now what sites do you REALLY go on
www.myfreepaysite.com
i make a pit stop a couple of times a month.. can't beat it
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
backbreaker said:everything is okay in moderation. like i said earlier... if it's a tuesday and I have to bet up at 6 in the morning and I don't feel like having company and I want to see some tits... porno here I come.. but I'm not sitting at home at 4 on a Thursday having a jackfest or anything
backbreaker said:seriously.. maybe 1 time a week. I just have too much **** to do..a nd I don't have a problem having women over my house when I want.. but sometimes that's not very convenient. Like now, it's 1:30am, i have to be up, or need to be u at around 8am, I'm not calling a girl over, spending 30 minutes talking or doing bull****, then fvcking.. by then it's 4am and I need to get 4 hours of sleep.. then when she gets up in the morning I"m going to hit it again.. soe I just ruined 2 days trying to chase ass.
spin your plates, don't let them spin you. of course, I haven't been in a sex mood all day long, and i f i were I would have made plans earlier today. But if I just got the sudden urge I usually try to just go to sleep, and if I can't....well..
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.