sillygoose
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24, fresh out of a relationship, wanting to get back into the game. Go.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yeppipe007 said:the best book is experience, observation skills, learning from mistakes, and implementing what you learn.
every book on PUA is useless until you experience it yourself.
go out and say hi to 20 women and see how they react
then say HI how is it going, and see how they react
then start small talk and se how they react
if they dont react attracted to you, change your approach, try something new.
repeat
keep making small talks approaching, and when you get positive signs, get the number.
call teh numbers you get and see how they react to you
ask them out and see how readily they accept your invitation.
if they are rejecting you, change your approach.
and on and on, until you get the results you want.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
5string said:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=192557
Maybe hope for you yet sillygoose. At least you are making a bit of an effort. Go back to the above thread and read the advice you were given, then put it into practice.
The dj bible will help you if you will read it. Other than that, you need to get that chick out of your fvcking head, move on and get a new girl. She's gone, accept it. Most of us have dealt with this type of situation.
loveshogun told you to become a better, fun guy. Good advice. Listen to what cordoncordon told you as well as Iceberg. His words were golden.
The guys on this forum are here because they have endured the battles and small arms fire that you have just experienced. Again, listen to them.
Let the chick out of your mind and work on yourself. If you do that, much will simply fall into place for you.