sillygoose
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24, fresh out of a relationship, wanting to get back into the game. Go.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What literature do I need?
- Thread starter sillygoose
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
jglide123
Don Juan
It really depends on what you're looking for. Because you just got out of a serious relationship, I'm gonna assume you're looking to play the field a bit before seriously committing again. There are many titles out there, but here are a few that have helped me.....
The very first book that I've read on success with women is a book titled "Make Every Girl Want You," by John Fate and Steve Riel. It isn't a very popular book and it isn't so much a pick up manual as it is a relationship builder. I would recommend this book for more mature men. I remember getting a date with a girl the very same day after reading this book (which is a very thin book).
"The Art of Macking" by Tariq Nasheed is a good one if you want to play the field.
Also, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" is a classic. While this book isn't designed for success with women, it should be the foundation of your game, as it's a great relationship builder for any type of relationship.
Anyways, good luck! I'm sure you'll get a bunch of titles thrown your way, so choose wisely....
The very first book that I've read on success with women is a book titled "Make Every Girl Want You," by John Fate and Steve Riel. It isn't a very popular book and it isn't so much a pick up manual as it is a relationship builder. I would recommend this book for more mature men. I remember getting a date with a girl the very same day after reading this book (which is a very thin book).
"The Art of Macking" by Tariq Nasheed is a good one if you want to play the field.
Also, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" is a classic. While this book isn't designed for success with women, it should be the foundation of your game, as it's a great relationship builder for any type of relationship.
Anyways, good luck! I'm sure you'll get a bunch of titles thrown your way, so choose wisely....
the best book is experience, observation skills, learning from mistakes, and implementing what you learn.
every book on PUA is useless until you experience it yourself.
go out and say hi to 20 women and see how they react
then say HI how is it going, and see how they react
then start small talk and se how they react
if they dont react attracted to you, change your approach, try something new.
repeat
keep making small talks approaching, and when you get positive signs, get the number.
call teh numbers you get and see how they react to you
ask them out and see how readily they accept your invitation.
if they are rejecting you, change your approach.
and on and on, until you get the results you want.
every book on PUA is useless until you experience it yourself.
go out and say hi to 20 women and see how they react
then say HI how is it going, and see how they react
then start small talk and se how they react
if they dont react attracted to you, change your approach, try something new.
repeat
keep making small talks approaching, and when you get positive signs, get the number.
call teh numbers you get and see how they react to you
ask them out and see how readily they accept your invitation.
if they are rejecting you, change your approach.
and on and on, until you get the results you want.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Art of Mackin' - Main Dish. Gets your game right/in the door.
The Mack Within- Side dishes. Upgrade your game.
The Elite Way- More for relationships with female.
The Mack Within- Side dishes. Upgrade your game.
The Elite Way- More for relationships with female.
5string
Master Don Juan
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=192557
Maybe hope for you yet sillygoose. At least you are making a bit of an effort. Go back to the above thread and read the advice you were given, then put it into practice.
The dj bible will help you if you will read it. Other than that, you need to get that chick out of your fvcking head, move on and get a new girl. She's gone, accept it. Most of us have dealt with this type of situation.
loveshogun told you to become a better, fun guy. Good advice. Listen to what cordoncordon told you as well as Iceberg. His words were golden.
The guys on this forum are here because they have endured the battles and small arms fire that you have just experienced. Again, listen to them.
Let the chick out of your mind and work on yourself. If you do that, much will simply fall into place for you.
Maybe hope for you yet sillygoose. At least you are making a bit of an effort. Go back to the above thread and read the advice you were given, then put it into practice.
The dj bible will help you if you will read it. Other than that, you need to get that chick out of your fvcking head, move on and get a new girl. She's gone, accept it. Most of us have dealt with this type of situation.
loveshogun told you to become a better, fun guy. Good advice. Listen to what cordoncordon told you as well as Iceberg. His words were golden.
The guys on this forum are here because they have endured the battles and small arms fire that you have just experienced. Again, listen to them.
Let the chick out of your mind and work on yourself. If you do that, much will simply fall into place for you.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
5string said:
Honestly, after having a PM discussion with him, I strongly believe he's a troll. But we'll see what happens.
Maybe he disappears to read the wealth of information on this site.
Or maybe he comes back posting thread after thread asking questions that could be resolved with a click of the "search" button.