sillygoose
Don Juan
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24, fresh out of a relationship, wanting to get back into the game. Go.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What literature do I need?
- Thread starter sillygoose
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
jglide123
Don Juan
It really depends on what you're looking for. Because you just got out of a serious relationship, I'm gonna assume you're looking to play the field a bit before seriously committing again. There are many titles out there, but here are a few that have helped me.....
The very first book that I've read on success with women is a book titled "Make Every Girl Want You," by John Fate and Steve Riel. It isn't a very popular book and it isn't so much a pick up manual as it is a relationship builder. I would recommend this book for more mature men. I remember getting a date with a girl the very same day after reading this book (which is a very thin book).
"The Art of Macking" by Tariq Nasheed is a good one if you want to play the field.
Also, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" is a classic. While this book isn't designed for success with women, it should be the foundation of your game, as it's a great relationship builder for any type of relationship.
Anyways, good luck! I'm sure you'll get a bunch of titles thrown your way, so choose wisely....
The very first book that I've read on success with women is a book titled "Make Every Girl Want You," by John Fate and Steve Riel. It isn't a very popular book and it isn't so much a pick up manual as it is a relationship builder. I would recommend this book for more mature men. I remember getting a date with a girl the very same day after reading this book (which is a very thin book).
"The Art of Macking" by Tariq Nasheed is a good one if you want to play the field.
Also, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" is a classic. While this book isn't designed for success with women, it should be the foundation of your game, as it's a great relationship builder for any type of relationship.
Anyways, good luck! I'm sure you'll get a bunch of titles thrown your way, so choose wisely....
the best book is experience, observation skills, learning from mistakes, and implementing what you learn.
every book on PUA is useless until you experience it yourself.
go out and say hi to 20 women and see how they react
then say HI how is it going, and see how they react
then start small talk and se how they react
if they dont react attracted to you, change your approach, try something new.
repeat
keep making small talks approaching, and when you get positive signs, get the number.
call teh numbers you get and see how they react to you
ask them out and see how readily they accept your invitation.
if they are rejecting you, change your approach.
and on and on, until you get the results you want.
every book on PUA is useless until you experience it yourself.
go out and say hi to 20 women and see how they react
then say HI how is it going, and see how they react
then start small talk and se how they react
if they dont react attracted to you, change your approach, try something new.
repeat
keep making small talks approaching, and when you get positive signs, get the number.
call teh numbers you get and see how they react to you
ask them out and see how readily they accept your invitation.
if they are rejecting you, change your approach.
and on and on, until you get the results you want.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Art of Mackin' - Main Dish. Gets your game right/in the door.
The Mack Within- Side dishes. Upgrade your game.
The Elite Way- More for relationships with female.
The Mack Within- Side dishes. Upgrade your game.
The Elite Way- More for relationships with female.
5string
Master Don Juan
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=192557
Maybe hope for you yet sillygoose. At least you are making a bit of an effort. Go back to the above thread and read the advice you were given, then put it into practice.
The dj bible will help you if you will read it. Other than that, you need to get that chick out of your fvcking head, move on and get a new girl. She's gone, accept it. Most of us have dealt with this type of situation.
loveshogun told you to become a better, fun guy. Good advice. Listen to what cordoncordon told you as well as Iceberg. His words were golden.
The guys on this forum are here because they have endured the battles and small arms fire that you have just experienced. Again, listen to them.
Let the chick out of your mind and work on yourself. If you do that, much will simply fall into place for you.
Maybe hope for you yet sillygoose. At least you are making a bit of an effort. Go back to the above thread and read the advice you were given, then put it into practice.
The dj bible will help you if you will read it. Other than that, you need to get that chick out of your fvcking head, move on and get a new girl. She's gone, accept it. Most of us have dealt with this type of situation.
loveshogun told you to become a better, fun guy. Good advice. Listen to what cordoncordon told you as well as Iceberg. His words were golden.
The guys on this forum are here because they have endured the battles and small arms fire that you have just experienced. Again, listen to them.
Let the chick out of your mind and work on yourself. If you do that, much will simply fall into place for you.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
5string said:
Honestly, after having a PM discussion with him, I strongly believe he's a troll. But we'll see what happens.
Maybe he disappears to read the wealth of information on this site.
Or maybe he comes back posting thread after thread asking questions that could be resolved with a click of the "search" button.