sillygoose
Don Juan
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24, fresh out of a relationship, wanting to get back into the game. Go.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What literature do I need?
- Thread starter sillygoose
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
jglide123
Don Juan
It really depends on what you're looking for. Because you just got out of a serious relationship, I'm gonna assume you're looking to play the field a bit before seriously committing again. There are many titles out there, but here are a few that have helped me.....
The very first book that I've read on success with women is a book titled "Make Every Girl Want You," by John Fate and Steve Riel. It isn't a very popular book and it isn't so much a pick up manual as it is a relationship builder. I would recommend this book for more mature men. I remember getting a date with a girl the very same day after reading this book (which is a very thin book).
"The Art of Macking" by Tariq Nasheed is a good one if you want to play the field.
Also, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" is a classic. While this book isn't designed for success with women, it should be the foundation of your game, as it's a great relationship builder for any type of relationship.
Anyways, good luck! I'm sure you'll get a bunch of titles thrown your way, so choose wisely....
The very first book that I've read on success with women is a book titled "Make Every Girl Want You," by John Fate and Steve Riel. It isn't a very popular book and it isn't so much a pick up manual as it is a relationship builder. I would recommend this book for more mature men. I remember getting a date with a girl the very same day after reading this book (which is a very thin book).
"The Art of Macking" by Tariq Nasheed is a good one if you want to play the field.
Also, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" is a classic. While this book isn't designed for success with women, it should be the foundation of your game, as it's a great relationship builder for any type of relationship.
Anyways, good luck! I'm sure you'll get a bunch of titles thrown your way, so choose wisely....
the best book is experience, observation skills, learning from mistakes, and implementing what you learn.
every book on PUA is useless until you experience it yourself.
go out and say hi to 20 women and see how they react
then say HI how is it going, and see how they react
then start small talk and se how they react
if they dont react attracted to you, change your approach, try something new.
repeat
keep making small talks approaching, and when you get positive signs, get the number.
call teh numbers you get and see how they react to you
ask them out and see how readily they accept your invitation.
if they are rejecting you, change your approach.
and on and on, until you get the results you want.
every book on PUA is useless until you experience it yourself.
go out and say hi to 20 women and see how they react
then say HI how is it going, and see how they react
then start small talk and se how they react
if they dont react attracted to you, change your approach, try something new.
repeat
keep making small talks approaching, and when you get positive signs, get the number.
call teh numbers you get and see how they react to you
ask them out and see how readily they accept your invitation.
if they are rejecting you, change your approach.
and on and on, until you get the results you want.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Art of Mackin' - Main Dish. Gets your game right/in the door.
The Mack Within- Side dishes. Upgrade your game.
The Elite Way- More for relationships with female.
The Mack Within- Side dishes. Upgrade your game.
The Elite Way- More for relationships with female.
5string
Master Don Juan
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=192557
Maybe hope for you yet sillygoose. At least you are making a bit of an effort. Go back to the above thread and read the advice you were given, then put it into practice.
The dj bible will help you if you will read it. Other than that, you need to get that chick out of your fvcking head, move on and get a new girl. She's gone, accept it. Most of us have dealt with this type of situation.
loveshogun told you to become a better, fun guy. Good advice. Listen to what cordoncordon told you as well as Iceberg. His words were golden.
The guys on this forum are here because they have endured the battles and small arms fire that you have just experienced. Again, listen to them.
Let the chick out of your mind and work on yourself. If you do that, much will simply fall into place for you.
Maybe hope for you yet sillygoose. At least you are making a bit of an effort. Go back to the above thread and read the advice you were given, then put it into practice.
The dj bible will help you if you will read it. Other than that, you need to get that chick out of your fvcking head, move on and get a new girl. She's gone, accept it. Most of us have dealt with this type of situation.
loveshogun told you to become a better, fun guy. Good advice. Listen to what cordoncordon told you as well as Iceberg. His words were golden.
The guys on this forum are here because they have endured the battles and small arms fire that you have just experienced. Again, listen to them.
Let the chick out of your mind and work on yourself. If you do that, much will simply fall into place for you.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
5string said:
Honestly, after having a PM discussion with him, I strongly believe he's a troll. But we'll see what happens.
Maybe he disappears to read the wealth of information on this site.
Or maybe he comes back posting thread after thread asking questions that could be resolved with a click of the "search" button.