"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What kind of music do you listen to?

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Do you think the music you listen to can affect your attitude? Do you try to listen to more upbeat music to put you in a better mood and succeed with women, life, etc?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes, you should listen to music that boosts your mood. Why be like those depressed emos, just because the lyrics in a song relate to their current "situation", they think that they are "special". Or the losers that listen to sappy love songs while going through a breakup.
 
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Just try to listen to Lady Gaga and remain in a bad mood. Hah.
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Oh god. I have 4 girl room mates. Hell no.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rap/pop/techno/house and any variation of that.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My favorite type is electronica, more specifically trance, vocal trance, house, progressive, etc. Great songs can make me feel euphoric. A lot of people don't like it as much as I do and some can even find it as annoying. Just not into a lot of that Top 40 ****. One of these days I'll meet a chick who will love to **** with this in the background.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zc2kqjLgAHE&feature=related

Liking ^ right about now. Sound quality isn't that great.
 
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Upside said:
My favorite type is electronica, more specifically trance, vocal trance, house, progressive, etc. Great songs can make me feel euphoric. A lot of people don't like it as much as I do and some can even find it as annoying. Just not into a lot of that Top 40 ****. One of these days I'll meet a chick who will love to **** with this in the background.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zc2kqjLgAHE&feature=related

Liking ^ right about now. Sound quality isn't that great.
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I listen to deep house, progressive, deep progressive, tech, deep tech, minimal, tribal, drum & bass, dubstep, trance, techno. And since it's rare to find a fellow electronic music aficionado, I leave you two little gems:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nAuZ1Lw0UtI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVQwLiiylHU
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Upside said:
My favorite type is electronica, more specifically trance, vocal trance, house, progressive, etc. Great songs can make me feel euphoric. A lot of people don't like it as much as I do and some can even find it as annoying. Just not into a lot of that Top 40 ****. One of these days I'll meet a chick who will love to **** with this in the background.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zc2kqjLgAHE&feature=related

Liking ^ right about now. Sound quality isn't that great.
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Yes again! :up:
 
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i listen to a bit of everything, but when lifting i listen to stuff like this.

i remember the first ime hearing this. I had just finished set 2 andfelt like i couldent do set three. this song put me back in the mood.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UF1mDqvD6No
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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