"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What kind of music do you listen to?
- Thread starter Rhino22
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
MikeBrown30
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MetalFortress
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KontrollerX
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXNjgYx3SKI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_4pqjUgnuz8
This is the kind of music that I listen to.
Music can help one maintain a certain unstoppable winning attitude.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
thedude4242
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MeteorMash
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I don't really care for the new mainstream stuff though. Mostly old lol
this is my favorite song at the moment
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ImRPsLxe8t0
Julius_Seizeher
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wPgZbRTEvr0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nDUR3MhNkKY
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3CTkW8z0SkE
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2s0-wbXC3pQ
Morricone forever!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Upside
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zc2kqjLgAHE&feature=related
Liking ^ right about now. Sound quality isn't that great.
theunflushables
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backbreaker
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I listen to deep house, progressive, deep progressive, tech, deep tech, minimal, tribal, drum & bass, dubstep, trance, techno. And since it's rare to find a fellow electronic music aficionado, I leave you two little gems:Upside said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nAuZ1Lw0UtI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVQwLiiylHU
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MmZexg8sxyk
sorry its vevo
lorekeeper
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i remember the first ime hearing this. I had just finished set 2 andfelt like i couldent do set three. this song put me back in the mood.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UF1mDqvD6No
Upside
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MGMT is a great band. I especially like "Kids" and "Time to Pretend"Julian said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hjhe...8B01BFE1&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=11
^ Great vocal trance song. It is actually a remix of Bob Marley's - Sun is Shining. It shouldn't disappoint electronic fans.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.