"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What kind of music do you listen to?

Rhino22

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Do you think the music you listen to can affect your attitude? Do you try to listen to more upbeat music to put you in a better mood and succeed with women, life, etc?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yes, you should listen to music that boosts your mood. Why be like those depressed emos, just because the lyrics in a song relate to their current "situation", they think that they are "special". Or the losers that listen to sappy love songs while going through a breakup.
 

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MetalFortress said:
Just try to listen to Lady Gaga and remain in a bad mood. Hah.
Oh god. I have 4 girl room mates. Hell no.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rap/pop/techno/house and any variation of that.
 

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My favorite type is electronica, more specifically trance, vocal trance, house, progressive, etc. Great songs can make me feel euphoric. A lot of people don't like it as much as I do and some can even find it as annoying. Just not into a lot of that Top 40 ****. One of these days I'll meet a chick who will love to **** with this in the background.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zc2kqjLgAHE&feature=related

Liking ^ right about now. Sound quality isn't that great.
 

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Upside said:
My favorite type is electronica, more specifically trance, vocal trance, house, progressive, etc. Great songs can make me feel euphoric. A lot of people don't like it as much as I do and some can even find it as annoying. Just not into a lot of that Top 40 ****. One of these days I'll meet a chick who will love to **** with this in the background.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zc2kqjLgAHE&feature=related

Liking ^ right about now. Sound quality isn't that great.
I listen to deep house, progressive, deep progressive, tech, deep tech, minimal, tribal, drum & bass, dubstep, trance, techno. And since it's rare to find a fellow electronic music aficionado, I leave you two little gems:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nAuZ1Lw0UtI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVQwLiiylHU
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Upside said:
My favorite type is electronica, more specifically trance, vocal trance, house, progressive, etc. Great songs can make me feel euphoric. A lot of people don't like it as much as I do and some can even find it as annoying. Just not into a lot of that Top 40 ****. One of these days I'll meet a chick who will love to **** with this in the background.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zc2kqjLgAHE&feature=related

Liking ^ right about now. Sound quality isn't that great.
Yes again! :up:
 

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i listen to a bit of everything, but when lifting i listen to stuff like this.

i remember the first ime hearing this. I had just finished set 2 andfelt like i couldent do set three. this song put me back in the mood.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UF1mDqvD6No
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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