Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Oh god. I have 4 girl room mates. Hell no.MetalFortress said:Just try to listen to Lady Gaga and remain in a bad mood. Hah.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Excellent stuff!KontrollerX said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jelFr894yBk
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXNjgYx3SKI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_4pqjUgnuz8
This is the kind of music that I listen to.
Music can help one maintain a certain unstoppable winning attitude.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I listen to deep house, progressive, deep progressive, tech, deep tech, minimal, tribal, drum & bass, dubstep, trance, techno. And since it's rare to find a fellow electronic music aficionado, I leave you two little gems:Upside said:My favorite type is electronica, more specifically trance, vocal trance, house, progressive, etc. Great songs can make me feel euphoric. A lot of people don't like it as much as I do and some can even find it as annoying. Just not into a lot of that Top 40 ****. One of these days I'll meet a chick who will love to **** with this in the background.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zc2kqjLgAHE&feature=related
Liking ^ right about now. Sound quality isn't that great.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yes again!Upside said:My favorite type is electronica, more specifically trance, vocal trance, house, progressive, etc. Great songs can make me feel euphoric. A lot of people don't like it as much as I do and some can even find it as annoying. Just not into a lot of that Top 40 ****. One of these days I'll meet a chick who will love to **** with this in the background.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zc2kqjLgAHE&feature=related
Liking ^ right about now. Sound quality isn't that great.
MGMT is a great band. I especially like "Kids" and "Time to Pretend"Julian said:ive been listening to this MGMT Electric Feel
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MmZexg8sxyk
sorry its vevo
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.